Friday, April 29, 2011

Kinky Question in the Mail Bag: Define Str8

I love reader mail...sadly, alot of it is too specific to repost without CIA level redacts, but here's an innocent enough one for your weekend wondering...

I'm a str8 guy who wants 2 b tied restrictively! Could I b bound
without sex, edging etc?

Hmmm...how to tackle that one.  I guess the quick version depends on who's asking, right?
Anyway, here goes:



"Of course, why not?

Now, ya gotta ask yourself, what is it about the bondage that made you
want to do it in the first place...for most, well 99.9..., well let's
just say I've never met a guy into bondage who didn't get off on it
(somehow).  For some straight guys there's the whole guy-on-guy aspect
that's a turn off, but again I say, what got you into the bondage with
a guy in the first place?  I *suppose* there could be some guys out
there who are just in it for the physical challenge, but I can think of
better ways to challenge oneself physically.

I guess what I'm saying is that deep down you get off on the idea of
being securely restrained by a guy.  Maybe you don't think you'd be
into getting off with that guy, but 1) what other sort of activity did
you have in mind? I mean, it's sorta boring to tie you up and then sit
there and watch you try and get loose, unless there are
stakes/goals/challenges to be met (like if you're not loose within the
next hour, I get to have my way with you for the rest of the night) and
2) that's sort of the point of a loss of control isn't it? Once you're
securely bound and gagged, you're essentially at the Dom's mercy and
it's up to him what happens (or doesn't happen) next.  If he decides to
start playing with your dick, how do you think you're going to stop him?

"If a guy messes with your junk and you enjoy it, does that make you
gay?" seems to be the question you're not asking.  Believe what you
want, but not every guy who gets off with other guys is gay - men are
men and have needs and appetites that are best understood by other men.
  If I had some chick under my desk right now giving me amazing head and
I happen to blow my wad, do you think that would make me straight?
Nope, just horny.

So, that kind of answers your question by asking another question. 
Curious to know more about what you're thinking or what your reasoning
is or what sort of fantasy motivated the question in the first place,
but you found my blog, so I can probably guess what sort of answers
you'd give me based on that.

And in conclusion, here's a scenario:  a dom guy has you all strapped
down, blindfolded gagged and starts doing painful but non-sexual things
to you (tickling your ribs and feet, paddling your ass, clamps on your
nipples, dripping hot wax on your body, electricity in strategic
places, flogging your chest and back, etc.) If the guy in charge
suddenly declares that the torture won't end until you beg him to jerk
you off, what do you think your decision would be? Do you honestly
think you'd pick to continue the abuse until the Dom gets tired or
bored (IF he gets tired or bored) or would you take the easy way out
and let him jerk your meat so you could be set free?

Food for thought,
-boiconstrictor"

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